It’s 2024. You don’t have to be attractive, have swag or $ to be a player. Dating sites and hookup apps make it possible for anyone who signs up to find a mate or several companions. Also, look at all the reality shows. Catfish, 90 Day Fiance, Life after Lockup, and on and on. Some of these people have nothing going for them but they found someone to connect with. Whether it is real or not is a different story and it is what makes those shows so popular.