Call me whatever you like, I will never understand taking an out town trip for a bachelor or bachelorette party. It spells DISASTER. The time in my life when my friends were getting married we went out for a night of bar hopping, we saw a male dance troupe, (aka strippers!) or the maid of honor and her Mom hosted a dinner party at their social club. Going out of town seems too costly, attention seeking, and a red flag friendships are going to end. Not everyone pays their share, someone gets stuck with the bill and is ghosted, and at least one person makes a fool of themself and embarrasses the group.